Pleasure Without Penetration 01

    

                        SQUIRTING                         


Knowing how to make a girl squirt is going to make you the best lover she has ever been with and have her coming back for more of the magic.






Before we begin, I want to quickly cover the female anatomy so u know your way around her inside and not get lost. Also, important, is knowing how to put her in a relaxed mood so she's willing and eager to squirt.
THE FEMALE ANATOMY


HER G-SPOT

Her G Spot is going to be the most important part of her vagina when learning to make your girlfriend squirt. You can see where it’s located in the diagram above, on the front wall of her vagina.
Locating it is the first step to master how to make her squirt. So, to find it with your fingers, you insert your middle finger inside her vagina, then with the finger still in her, curve it towards the upper wall of her vagina and slide the pad of your finger (where your fingerprint is) along the upper wall. The G Spot feels similar to a wet raspberry or bunch of grapes to the touch: soft; it’s slightly ribbed/textured with ‘gutters’ on either side. It’s usually be between 2-3 inches deep inside.
Note: The G Spot is easier to find when she is aroused. Just like your penis only gets hard when you’re aroused, her G Spot will remain hidden until she is aroused and horny.

HER SKENE’S GLAND

 

Another important part of her is the Skene’s gland which is located behind the G Spot. This gland is attached to the walls of the urethra and drains into it. As she starts to become aroused, the skene’s gland begins to swells with fluid. This is the fluid she ejaculates when she squirts. So, keep in mind that if she isn’t well aroused before hand with lots of fore play, her Skene’s gland won’t have the time to be filled with fluid, and this would make her struggle with squirting.
To be clear, her Skene’s gland isn’t in her vagina; it’s sandwiched between her G Spot and urethra. Therefore, if you want to stimulate her Skene’s gland, then you will need to stimulate her G Spot, which I’m going to show you a bunch of techniques on how to do this.
As a result, this entire tutorial will focus on stimulating her G Spot.

THE KEY TO MAKING SQUIRTING EASY


Everyone thinks that to make her squirt, you need to perfect your fingering technique. They think that if she’s not squirting, it’s because they are not rubbing, not massaging or not pressing the correct way.
Often, this is not the reason she isn’t squirting.
The most common reason that women can’t squirt is that you have not properly removed the setbacks holding her sex drive and you have not intensified the Accelerators to her sex drive that will make her crazy horny, aroused and ready to squirt.
Assuming you already know how to push her beyond her sexual setbacks, we would be pushing on to the techniques to stimulating the G-spot.
If you don’t know how to help her over come this set-backs, stay tuned, we would discuss that in our coming topic.


SQUIRTING TECHNIQUE

 

 


You’ll start by inserting your middle finger into her vagina, making sure it’s wet and lubed (learn about your lube options) so it goes in smoothly. Ideally, she should be wet enough that you can coat your finger with her natural wetness before penetrating her. If not, try licking your finger. The last option is to use lube.





As you insert your middle finger, you need to be brushing the pad of your finger (that’s the area with your fingerprint) against the top of the vaginal wall, like in the illustration above. Gently stroke the area with your middle finger and see how she responds.
After doing this for up to a minute, slowly pull out your middle finger. Now, you’re going to insert both your middle and ring fingers together.
To make sure they both slide in pleasurably, you’ll need to coat your ring finger with her natural wetness as well or use salvia or lube (stop if she complains of pain at any point in time).





As you slide your index and middle fingers inside her, it should look like the illustration above, with your fingers curled slightly around her pubic bone, so they are providing pressure to her G Spot area.
If this is your first time trying to make your girl squirt, it’s a good idea to do a little exploring with your fingertips. Extend them to reach a little deeper and then curl them back up to bring them to a shallower point in her vagina. When doing this make sure to run your fingertips along the top wall of her vaginal canal.
As you do so, you’ll be able to feel different textures and surfaces, helping you to find exactly where her G Spot is.
Now it’s time to stimulate her G Spot and make her squirt! Here are different techniques, try them all and then focus your efforts on the ones that work best for you and your girl.

PUSH THE BUTTON






Like the name, you’ll perform the Push the Button techniques by repeatedly pressing her G Spot with your finger like you would press a button, up and down. Experiment and vary how much pressure you apply and the speed at which you do it paying close attention to her reaction. Lightly pressing can be enough for some women, while others need intense pressure.
This pressing can be pleasurable, but not enough to push her over the edge and squirt. Next is

RUBBING HER G SPOT






Rubbing her G Spot in a circular motion while maintaining lots of pressure on your fingertip is another option. Again, for some women, this is enough to make them squirt, but for others, it merely feels nice and is not enough to make them explode.

Next the infamous


COME HITHER MOTION






Making a ‘come hither’ or ‘beckoning’ motion with your middle and ring fingers will allow the tips of your fingers to run over and back on her G Spot, providing her with a lot more stimulation. Again, make sure to experiment with the amount of pressure you apply and with the exact spot of where you apply the pressure paying close attention to her response to the varying degree of pressure and spot of application.

As you curl your fingers, you should be applying lots of pressure to her G Spot. Then release this pressure as you’re straightening them out. As you start curling them again, start to apply more pressure.


For many women, this is more than enough to make them squirt. However, 2 issues sometimes arise from each of these three techniques:

·       You may notice that your fingers and wrist get tired way too fast before she is even close to squirting.
·       They may not provide enough stimulation to your girl.

That’s why we have the Arm Shaker. It’s practically a fail-safe way to keep the motion going make any woman squirt.


THE ARM SHAKER






The Arm Shaker shares much in common with the above three techniques, with a few important differences. Instead of using your fingers and hand to provide stimulation, you are going to use your entire arm. First, you need to keep your fingers firmly in place, with the tips pressed against her G Spot. Then you need to start using your entire arm to provide pressure to her G Spot, a lot more pressure than previously.


Do this by keeping your arm quite stiff while trying to raise and lower it rapidly. As your fingers are pressed against her G Spot, you will be able to provide massive amounts of pressure to it.


EXTRA PRESSURE






If for some reason, she is still having trouble with female ejaculation despite using all the techniques I’ve just taught you. Then you can have her apply downward pressure to her Mons Pubis, like in the illustration above…or you can use your spare hand to do it yourself.


Applying pressure like this has the effect of gently squeezing her G Spot further into her vagina, allowing you to provide more pressure.


My one concern in this position is making sure that you don’t apply too much pressure or press down too hard. Otherwise you will be putting a lot of pressure on her bladder, which will make her feel like peeing, running a slight risk of her peeing instead of ejaculating and taking her out of the moment.

Now I saved best for last. My favorite technique.

 

 CLIT & G SPOT





This technique combines forces to double her pleasure. With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques I described above for rubbing her clit while using your other hand to penetrate her and massage her G Spot. You’ll be stimulating her clitoris from the inside and outside.
The only challenge with this technique is comfortably using both your hands…
What position makes it easy to use both of your hands to finger your girl?

  • ·       Standing behind her is probably the best position as you can easily reach around her and kiss her neck while doing it.
  • ·       Her on all fours with you behind her on your knees, reaching around her. You may have to lean over her in this position, meaning that you can kiss her back as you do.
  • You lying down on your back with her lying on top of you, also on her back.
  • She lying on the bed with her back and you on your knees on the ground.

If one of your hands is pressing on her mons, have her rub her clitoris while you stroke her G-spot. When she plays with her own clit, you can experiment with a wider variety of positions, some of which may be more comfortable for you or allows you to stimulate her G-spot for longer.